Givers and Takers

At some point in each of our lives, we decide. It may not be a conscious choice (it rarely is), but all of us hit a crossroad where we designate ourselves to be either a Taker or a Giver, and from there, journey on.

It is an underlying identity we attach to our whole life, for the rest of our life.

And yes, Givers may take and Takers may give. On occasion.

But the underlying identity prevails and persists and eventually dictates the course of destiny.

Many fool themselves. There are many Takers out there who consider themselves to be Givers -- but their gifts are more often times than not self-serving, empty packages in fancy wrapping paper presented with poisonous ulterior motives. These gifts are dangerous. Politely refuse them.

When a Giver gives, however, we should always gratefully and humbly accept the gift. No matter how small or insignificant that gift may seem. Because it is only through these gifts that lives are changed and miracles are earned.

And yes, both the Giver and the Taker may live a life of faith. Both may hope. But it is only the Giver who has the capacity to sow and reap charity. And of these three, the greatest of all: charity.

So,

Which one are you?